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What
would intimate relationships be without sex, passion and love? And yet
most of us haven’t the slightest idea of not only how we, ourselves, think
and communicate in these areas, but how our Significant Others relate.
Each
of the signs has a different way of approaching these issues. One thing
to keep in mind, however, is that even though a person’s Sun may be in one
sign, the way they love, and demonstrate their passionate and sexual
natures is expressed through the sign in which their Venus, Mars and Pluto
reside, respectively.
In
other words, even if your sweetie’s Sun is in, say, Gemini, if his Mercury
is in Gemini, his Venus is in Taurus, his Mars is in Gemini and his Pluto
is in Leo, he’s not only going to think and act like a Gemini, but his
love and sexual natures will mimic Taurus and Leo as well.
So
learn your lover’s other ‘communication’ signs and what she or he likes,
and you just might get lucky tonight!
Aries – Aries can be
spontaneous and prone to becoming bored easily or not finishing what they
start. Like Scorpio, this sign is fascinated by their partner’s sexual
organs, yet is more aroused when they’re having their heads rubbed. Go
figure. Their desires are strong, but not always consistent. Innocence,
virginity and purity are a big turn on for them, in fact, it titillates
them endlessly. They are warriors in and out of the bedroom and tend to
think of their partners more as conquests, rather than lovers. Although
they love, their practicality makes it difficult for them to love for
love’s sake. Love, for Arians, should be functional, utilitarian,
for-a-reason and with a purpose. Their first thought when considering a
love match is: “What can this person do for me?” “How can I benefit?”
It’s not that Aries is superficial, they just know what they want and
aren’t willing to let something as frivolous as love stand in their way.
After all, they’re out to win!
Taurus – Taureans love
comfort. This sign is down-to-earth and they use all their senses when
making love. Touching, feeling, smelling, even sounds can set Taurus
snorting with pleasure. Long-lasting and steady, the bull can out-last
just about anyone. They’re not generally very imaginative in the bedroom,
but show them a touch, smell, sound or even a sexually seductive outfit
and they’re more than willing to add it to their repertoire. But make
them think it’s their idea, because they’re also stubborn (yes, it’s
really true). Going without sex for any length of time can be excruciating
for Taurus. So, regular trysts with your bull are a must. Otherwise he
or she might search out greener pastures. Give your Taurus a soothing neck
rub, make love to their ears and tongue and your bull will melt.
Like
Leos, most Taureans are in love with love. But they do fall in love and
can settle down – as long as they know they’re loved in return and are
comfortable and safe in the relationship. They can be quite hypocritical,
however, when it comes to fidelity. And like Gemini, think nothing of
roaming from one pasture to another. But should their mate exhibit the
same propensity, they can become quite angered, since they can also be
possessive. Cheat on them too often, and they’re off and running, never
to look back.
Gemini
– Ah, the acrobats of the Zodiac. Mental Geminis love to talk. Even when
they’re making love. They also love to kiss and are very oral. Having
their hands and fingers lightly touched drives the Gemini crazy. Trailing
your fingers lightly down their inner arm to the palm of their hand sends
them into orgasmic pleasure. Play with their fingers, suck them and
Gemini will always come back for more. Geminis love being made love to –
especially with words. So, don that sexy costume and let your Gemini
slowly peel it off as you’re telling him all about some new sexual
position you learned from the Kama Sutra, and would just love
to try. Geminis are adventurous, fun loving and dislike being restricted;
they absolutely must have their freedom and totally dislike
jealousy, neediness, clinginess or possessiveness. No balls, chains or
leashes for the wandering Gemini. And they will wander. And
wonder why you’re so upset about their wandering when they do. But if you
‘hang on loosely, but don’t let go,’ and are fun, adventurous and
intelligent and above all never boring, they’ll be back. They won’t
even mind if you wander a bit yourself; as long as you return to them.
Geminis
often marry several times throughout their life. Unless you can keep this
chameleon on his or her toes with your unpredictable and erotic surprises,
they’ll hit the road so fast you won’t even know they’ve been there.
Geminis can fall in love, though they don’t like to admit it. In
fact, they may never tell you they love you until you present them with
the divorce papers. Love is usually too restrictive for Gemini, and
actually scares them. Never tell a Gemini that you love them
first. Let them do the talking. Even if you absolutely adore them, let
them think you couldn’t care less. Be aloof and noncommittal and they’ll
follow you just about anywhere.
Geminis
light and seemingly superficial and fickle nature makes it difficult for
them to express their feelings. They might – if you’re lucky – but don’t
count on it. Gemini will stick around as long as they think they’re not
the center of your attention. But do acknowledge them; especially
their intellectual achievements. Though they may not admit this either,
they love to be told how smart they are. And never try to upstage them,
even if your IQ is astronomical. Let them believe they know it all. They
have Leos beat in this regard. And be careful. Although Gemini may seem
superficial, they aren’t. They’re very deep and extremely sensitive. Yet
they’ll never let it show. You’ll never know your words or actions have
wounded them until they’re gone.
Hard
to catch, and harder to keep. But oh so worth it, and absolutely
fantastic lovers!
Cancer
– Cancer is ruled by the Moon – the planet of deep emotions, and hence,
Cancerians can be quite emotional, more so than any of the other signs.
Their focus is mainly on their home and family, which includes their
partner and their sex life, as well as the past. Cancers remember
everything you’ve ever done and can use it against you if you’re not
careful. They’re fixers. Even if there’s nothing to fix. And they can
sense if there’s something not quite right in their sex life. Even if
there’s nothing wrong. But don’t tell them there’s nothing wrong. If you
love them, let them fix it. “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” means
nothing to Cancer.
Cancers are extremely sensitive and love to play out their fantasies.
Many of them like to be ravished, as long as they’re sure that you love
them. Cancers love to have their breasts and chest stroked. So focus on
these areas in foreplay to pleasure your Cancer. Historical role play
whets their sexual appetites. Play the rogue pirate to their damsel in
distress while showing them how much you love them and you’ve wooed them
for life.
Leo
– Though it’s true that Leos like to be the center of your world, they’re
not above realizing that this isn’t always fair. Most Leos are quite
adventurous in the bedroom, and are more than willing to take part in your
adventurous and kinky fantasies. But don’t expect them to be
subordinate. Leo is King (even if she’s a Queen) and expects to be the
Master, although your Leo may switch for you if they know that
they’re still the star. If this happens, remember this moment for
posterity, because it may never happen again.
The
lion loves toys, games, adventure, soothing sounds and smells (much like
Taurus) and fantasy, and like Gemini, can become bored easily with the
same ole, same ole. Take your Leo lady flowers, chocolates, and lingerie
and tell her she’s beautiful; she loves the romance. Tell your Leo man
he’s the most gorgeous, sexy hunk you’ve ever seen and the best lover.
Run your fingers through their mane and they’ll be purring. Leo loves it
on top, but is quite versatile. Make them the center of your attention,
and they’ll follow you anywhere you go – as long as they can lead.
Like
Gemini, Leos are generally very oral. And they love to give, as well as
receive. But the quickest way to tame this Lion, is to touch their
heart.
While Leos may have a roving eye, they can be quite loyal. Sometimes to
the point of scaring away their intended. They don’t mean to; they just
forget that everyone doesn’t want to barraged with adoring words of
undying love (which is what they want to hear from their lovers). They
mean well, though. So stroke their mane, say thank you, and kiss them to
keep them from uttering those embarrassing endearments which they really
do mean, and you’ll both be fine.
Virgo
– This is the sign of ‘service to others’ and that’s exactly what Virgo
does. Virgos will cater to your every whim just to make sure that you’re
satisfied. They’ll watch you closely to make sure that what they’re doing
is turning you on. Virgos are attracted to those they feel are the
underdogs or who seem to be invisible to others and like Cancers, are
attracted to ‘fixer-uppers.’
Though Virgo is the ‘virgin,’ don’t let them fool you. They’re very
seldom ever virginal or innocent. They are generally insatiable where sex
is concerned, and are just as kinky as Scorpios or Leos in the bedroom.
Porn flicks are not beyond them, and they love to watch, mainly to learn,
but for the sexual pleasure of it as well. Virgos have a difficult time
receiving, since their focus is usually on their partner. But when they
allow themselves to receive, they’re not above a little whipped cream or
other culinary foreplay. Tread lightly with the Virgo heart. They have
feelings just like the rest of the signs and don’t like to be led on. If
you love them, tell them so; and you’d better mean it. Otherwise, as far
as they’re concerned, you can hit the road. They don’t like wasting their
time on someone who isn’t truthful with their feelings.
Libra
– Libra co-rules Venus along with Taurus. These lovely creatures love
balance. They love to give, but because of their diplomatic nature, they
expect there to be reciprocity as well. If you want to please your Libra,
be fair. Rub her back; this is an excellent way to get your Libras juices
flowing. It’s the give and take in a relationship that turns these lovely
ones on. And they love to play games. In the bedroom, that is. Pretend
you’re a Martian and she’s a Venutian and you’ll have her phoning home…to
cancel all her other appointments just to be with you.
Libras are extremely selective for all that. But they’ll do anything for
you. They’re sweet and shy and loving. While Leos are accused of not
being able to tell the difference between sex and love, it’s actually
Libra who has this little problem. If it can truly be called a problem.
For Libra, sex is love, and vice versa. They love sex. And
they show their love, oftentimes, through their sexual natures. But being
an air sign has them dwelling in their heads, so like Geminis, they may
talk while they’re making love, and not understand why you’ve just lost
the moment. They’re very practical, but they like to be romanced. And
they love to learn. So give your Libra a book or DVD on sexual positions
and suggest that you watch or read it together. What could be more
romantic?
Scorpio
– Scorpio rules, among other things, sex, as does its ruling planet,
Pluto. And are they powerful in bed! The best lovers of the Zodiac, when
it comes to sex, Scorpio is definitely the best. Depending on their
maturity level and knowledge, they can be Sexual Gurus. Scorpios are
fixated on having their sexual organs stimulated. The word ‘addict’
doesn’t even come close to what Scorpio generally is where sex is
concerned. And talk about kinky! Scorpio invented kinky! They’ll
try it any which way you’d like. In fact, they probably invented it! Did
I say that they’re powerful? They love power and control, and more than
likely put the ‘S’ in BDSM. Scorpios love to play games. Naughty games.
They’ll only give you what you want in the bedroom if they think you
deserve it. And the way to deserve it is to do anything they demand of
you.
Scorps
have nebulous imaginations. But you’d never know it, unless you’re lucky
enough to be part of their private world. They usually don’t talk about
their sex lives. That’s their little secret. Which is something
else Scorpio rules: secrets. And they generally have lots of them. In
love, they can be extremely jealous, possessive and vindictive. Don’t
make a Scorpion jealous or angry or you’ll feel their sting. “Hell hath
no fury like a woman scorned” was probably referring to a Scorpio. Yet
even male Scorpios can be as scornful of a lover’s seeming duplicity. If
you’re wise, you’ll double-check your synastry with this wily creature
before you choose to invest in a relationship with them and you’d
better hope that you don’t have a Fatal Attraction connection. If you do,
run for the hills – NOW – because they’ll never let you go once they get
their hands on you. The upside is, they are absolutely brilliant in bed
and will have you begging for more. They’re devoted in love, though not
necessarily faithful. But if they love you, you’ll be a cherished
possession.
Sagittarius
– The Traveler. Sometimes it’s difficult to keep these fire signs in one
place. Sex is a game to them. Yet, conversely, they don’t like to role
play, nor do they want to talk about it, they just want to do it,
then talk later. Sags are open, innocent and up front when it comes to
sex. They’ll tell you what they like, and they can be rather selfish
about getting it, but they’re good sports about reciprocating. And they
love to learn new sexual positions. Their most sexually sensitive areas
are the pelvis and thighs. Rub or stroke these areas for the maximum
affect with your Sag.
Sagittarians are not necessarily as intellectual as their opposite sign,
Gemini, nor do they always like to read. But they usually are interested
in learning anything new in whatever other way they can, usually
hands-on. They are usually light-hearted and very seldom ever serious.
Candy and flowers are not for them – either to give or receive. Oh, sure,
they’ll accept them if you give them, but it doesn’t mean as much to a Sag
as it does to, say, the Lion. Sags like to have fun, and think nothing of
turning your love-making into a wrestling match.
In
love and marriage, most take years to settle down because they’re often
traveling and learning. If they do settle down early, it’s generally for
the wrong reason, and their marriages most often don’t last. It’s not
until they’re usually in their mid 40s that they begin to settle down
enough to even contemplate love and marriage in as serious a manner as
Sags can do, and even then, that’s not as serious as most other signs
would like them to be. They’ll love you, as long as you love to travel
and learn and have fun. If not, they’ll take it for as long as necessary,
and then they’re off to Mecca.
Capricorn
– The workhorse, even in sex and love. These critters want to know what
works. Does it work better this way, or that way?
And they’ll usually keep at it until it works just the way they want it
to. Although it’s believed that Cappies prefer ‘older’ partners, actually
what they’re looking for is someone a bit more experienced; someone who
actually knows what they’re doing and is good at it. If you’re younger
but mature and experienced, your Cappy will be quite happy.
Capricorns usually prefer the traditional ways of making love: vanilla
and missionary. Though they are turned on by having the backs of
their knees tickled, touched, kissed or licked. This, however, is usually
the extent of their kinkiness. But if you’re really sweet, they might just
be willing to experiment. As long as it’s not too wild. And don’t kiss
and tell on your Cappy. The goat, like the bull, is likely to go looking
for greener pastures if he thinks he can’t trust you to be discreet. Like
the Aries in love, Capricorns are very practical. But they’re also
disciplined, and they expect you to be, too. If it’s not a functional
relationship, they want no part of it. Even if your Cappy is madly in
love with you, if they think they can’t trust you, they’ll look for
someone whom they can trust.
Aquarius
– This cerebral sign seems to be more turned on when their partner is
not. Although they may like sex, sex doesn’t seem to be as important to
most Aquarians as it is to the other signs. Cyber or phone sex can do
them just fine, while leaving their partner frustrated – unless he or she
happens to be an Aquarian, too. When they do make love, it’s
usually in their heads. Fantasizing about being caught in the act (and
sometimes literally being caught in the act!) is more to their
liking. If you can turn them on through physical means, it’s because
you’ve located their sensitive spots which are their calves, shins and
ankles. Not very romantic, but then, neither are they, though they are
generally open to suggestions. Like Aries, they’re more practical than
outwardly demonstrative. Love? Well, they can love after a fashion. But
it’s rarely the hearts and flowers type of love that many of the other
signs seem to crave.
Pisces
– The Spiritual lover. Or should we say, those who prefer illusion to
reality. Tantric or any type of spiritually-related sex is a big turn on
for these sweeties. Pisceans are the really shy ones of the Zodiac.
Fishies are usually sensitive just about anywhere on their bodies, but
especially their feet. Suck their toes or rub their feet and your Fishy
will swim upstream for you. They love to be ravished; even male Pisceans.
They want to know that they are loved and adored and desired. And they’re
more than willing to reciprocate the romance, as long as they don’t feel
that they’re being coerced. Then they balk.
Pisceans, like their sister sign, Cancer, are caretakers. They love to
cook for their loved ones, and in the bedroom, incorporating food into
their lovemaking is not unheard of. Like the fish glyph indicates,
sometimes they don’t know if they’re coming or going, and in fact can be a
bit spacey. But don’t confuse this with dim-wittedness. They are
anything but. In fact, they may act more like Gemini with their dual
natures than like Pisces. One moment they can be totally hot and turned
on, and the next completely indifferent. Most Pisceans love deeply, but
many also aren’t quite convinced that they’re worthy of this love.
Not sure where to look for those sexy gifts? Check out the sites
listed below:
Adam & Eve
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Eden Fantasys
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Good Vibrations
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Simply 4 Lovers
http://www.simply4lovers.com/
Xandria
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